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Dr. Jackie Johns
 
                                                
​    Sex: Scriptural Purpose and Restraints

 
            The role of sexuality as related to Scripture is a much-debated issue in contemporary society.  It seems problematic in the sense that sexual expression is either repressed, or on the other hand, expressed without regard to the sanctity and personal devotion that should constitute all sexual unions.

            History blaims the Puritans for a stringent interpretation of sexuality, but reality reveals quite a different conclusion.  In fact, the Puritan religion encouraged honorable sexual expression in the marriage relationship.  I Corinthians 7:1-5 is the Scripture referred to by the religious assembly, which marks the sexual union as good, natural, desirable, and beneficial to both partners in covenant marriage.      

            Human sexuality is largely a reflection on the culture in which a person was raised and socialized in.  Within the Christian culture, it is important to understand and teach God’s blueprint for human sexuality.  Early in Scripture, we find that God created male and female for the distinctive purpose of their being united as equals in sexual unification.  It is crucial to gain knowledge as to why sexuality is good in God’s sight. 

            Further insight includes discerning the purposes of sex and the limits regarding healthy restraint.  As one realizes how sexuality and spirituality are intricately linked, clarity on the subject can be gained. However, the journey to discovery may be troubling as we view misrepresentation of sexual matters resulting from the fallen, sinful state of humankind.

            Sexual expression is superlative when it is communicated through covenant love.  Scripture is replete with examples of God’s desire for covenantal relationship with those whom He loves.  Covenantal love constitutes balance and respect in all aspects of the marriage and sexual relationship.  I Corinthians 7:4-5 explains the need for balance and mutual respect and defines the spiritual reason for sexual restraint in marriage. 
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            Sexual restraint is critical for both married and single people, because lack of restraint may lead to emotional, mental, spiritual and even physical abuse of others.  The welfare and concern for the other person should always take priority over sexual expression.  To conduct our relationships in this manner is evidence of covenant love and relationship.  If proper attention is given to Scriptural guidelines regarding relationships, sexual expression can develop into a life-giving reward of covenantal love that is defined by faithful care and exercises in restraint from sinful practices.  This faithfulness assures the security and value of one’s sexual partner.     

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